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Frequently Asked Questions

I have a problem with nudity and getting undressed in front of so many people gives me the creeps, but I am interested in the courses. What is your advice?

I recommend the seminar Touch of Tantra and Tai-ji, which is most suitable for beginners and nudity is not included. It gives taste of tantric ritual, the essential oil massage techniques, working with a touch, relaxation during exercises focused on breathing, movement and energy work.

Otherwise, for the nudity. Nudity in tantric massage is not purposless. During the tantric massage the entire body is massaged, connecting with the sexual energy through the body, soul, heart chakra, the complex massage includes intimate parts and the prostate. And it will be difficult without being naked. By gentle, sensitive touch (and good intentions) we heal sexuality and we learn to unblock various fears, tentions and injuries in the intimate areas that are often there from previous relationships, or from the distant past.

Naked tantric masseur shows that he is "opened" and so he helps the other to overcome the barrier of shame because they are both "in the same boat." The nudity itself is openly discussed at the courses and from my experiences I can say that most participants are not finding it hard anymore. It is obviously a group atmosphere, openness, safety and desire to work with one‘s boundaries or blocks that add to it. We do not force nudity. If at that moment you feel you do not want to undress, you can stay in the room dressed and just feel the atmosphere. That in itself works and pushes your boundaries.

Nudity at the seminar is not about exhibitionism but about naturalness.

I'm fifty years. Am I not too old for your classes?

Definitely not old :-) Our courses are not limited by age. Applicants rates from 20 to 55 years. Most often, on average, therea is group in their thirties.

There appear gussy (soft) gay men at your courses, I do not want to sound stupid but I can‘t help it, I am bothered in their presence.

Courses are open to gay, bisexual and open-minded men (i.e. open men who either do not identify themselves as gays or bisexuals but do not have a problem with a masculine touch or want to learn it or want to unblock the fear of being touched by other men, they usually use the term "gayfriendly“).

Just because you feel restless by the presence of "gussy gays" (your term) itself testifies that your man polarity refuses the female polarity. But it is a topic for a longer chat and it is often a part of the sharing during the course.

Most participants are guys that do not like to visit gay clubs and lead a gay life according to the stereotype. And that was the reason we started to organize courses.

How does the matching of couples go in the course?

It varies according to the atmosphere. Sometimes the notion can come from a lecturer based on his feelings, or he leaves space for a free choice, or a ballot. It must be said that we do not force anyone and everyone can refuse to massage certain partner (usually because of some fear, etc.) We solve the situation individually. Chosen pair do not stay together throughout the weekend. On the next massage exercise you will meet with another participant. You can meet several men with which you can always have an interesting experience. I always say that participants do not need to worry, because you do not have to get involved with a "massage partner", or have sex with him :-)

I will be twenty and I enjoy to give a massage. I'd like to sign up for the course but I am hesitating because I am afraid that I will be massaging the older men...

I understand you. But you would not believe what a difference it can be to receive a massage from a 50-years old man then from a handsome man in his twenties. I wouldn’t worry about the age in advance. Moreover, during the course only you specify in what you choose to participate in or where to go or what will work for you. No one will force you. In fact, it is about communicating and learning to say no. You set the boundaries. Age difference of participants I consider a huge advantage. There is a chance of mutual overcoming prejudices and fears. Elders fears the closeness of young because they are afraid of being rejected and vice versa. But then you notice shining eyes on both sides because nothing horrible happend (remember, it is just about massage, not having sex or a relationship). During one touching exercise you can simply unlock the feeling of fear and you can have an encounter with a man of a different age or generation. If I should say more on that it might be a "problem" of experiences from your family, perhaps from the unresolved relationship with a father; or bad experiences we have had in life (such as harassment by older, etc.)

Is tantric massage about sex? Does sexual connection happens with a massage partner?

Tantric massage as we teach is not about sex yet we are working with sex (or life) energy. On the courses you will meet with sexuality, not with sex. Sexual connection is excluded during the course or the massage . You can experience a deep connection on an energetic level with yourself or your massage partner.

We are a couple and want to sign up for your course, but we would like to stay together throughout the weekend, it is possible, or do we have to wait for the seminar for couples?

Staying together with your partner can be arranged on all courses so you can undergo all trainings together.

I would like to find and live in a nice and advanced relationship. Can I register even though I don‘t have a boyfriend?

You have two options. Book a course with a friend or someone close to you in a similar situation as you, and you can attend together. Acquired experience you can later use in your future partnership and believe that if you are already applying on the seminar, the energy starts to work and who knows who you might meet after the course! Or you can subscribe yourself and meet massage partners in various exercises as the most of the participants.

Intimate massage is quite intimate for me. I can’t understand how it is possible to teach it with other fifteen participants?

It is hard to describe it in just a few lines. The seminar is open to develop a kind of open energy that you can compare it to a back massage after the first day of intimate massage :-) I raised it a little, but very soon you will realize that intimate massage may not be about sex.

Where can I get more information about tantric massage without having to go to a course?

We organize sample evenings with tantra massage, where you can come and listen to a short introduction, look for the show of tantra massage, and passively enjoy the energy and atmosphere, also ask any question about anything. Watch the current offer ont he web or write us and we will send you the earliest possible date of such a sample.

Contact

Miguel Arango, for Belgium:
GSM: 0032 499 407 111, migarang@hotmail.com (EN, FR, ES)
David Kopecký, for Czech Republic:
GSM: 00420 720 254 499, david@tantraflow.net (EN, CZ)
Facebook: Tantraflow Prague
Skype: kopdavid

Application

Event facilitators: David Kopecký (CZ), Tai-ji system presented by Miguel Arango Isaza (Columbia).
For more information contact us: Workshop organization - Miguel Arango, migarang@hotmail.com, GSM: 0032 499 407 111

David Kopecký | +420 720 254 499 | david@tantraflow.net
Facebook: Tantraflow Prague | Skype: kopdavid